I have this job as a real esate agent, and my significant other has a job as a construction worker. So my income is slightly larger then his. And everytime he has an idea or wants to do something i end up paying for it? should i feel a little offended. And Whenever we have *** he is ready for me to leave after wards.What in the heck should i do?
BERNARD
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Next time you go out, don’t pay. let him pay. Constraction workers actually make pretty good money, at least enough to pay for the date! Let him pay, let’s see what he says, if he doesn’t like it, dump him.
Get the HECK out!! Anybody will take advantage of a free ride, get my drift?
Sweetie, if you feel like you are being used… then it means you aren’t happy. Therefore, talk to him about it. Say, why don’t you pay this time.. or when he wants to do something say ok, well you pay because I had *** bills this month so money is tight. Talk to him about making you leave after ***. If you don’t bring it up, it will eat away at you.
Here is a hint- if he gets angry/ defensive after you tell him any of this, then yes he is most likely a user and your instincts were probably right. If he says, sorry hun didn’t mean to make you feel that way, or something to that extent, then he seems like a good guy.
And girl, cmon now, real estate agent, successful woman, you’ve got it goin on- if it does turn out that he’s using you move on! You’re a catch and can do better!
If i were you…I would stop putting any money out…and see what happens then. It seems to me that one thing he likes about you is your money….So be smart about it…and when another bright idea comes to his mind…say great and keep your wallet closed.
